Last week, a friend with older kids mentioned how easy it is to buy marijuana at the high school.
“It’s everywhere,” she said.
I’ve always heard phrases like, “It’s so easy to get drugs” or “You wouldn’t believe what goes on…” but now that I’m the mother of a high schooler, I’m listening a lot more closely.
Personally, I didn’t take a lot of chances in high school (at least until I was a senior, but that’s another column altogether). As a freshman, I firmly believed alcohol and drugs would only weaken a laser-sharp focus on my two greatest interests: good grades and cute boys. My deepest fear was disappointing my parents and/or getting caught doing something that might jeopardize my future.
My father, on the other hand, kept a Sucrets lozenge box filled with joints in a bathroom drawer. When asked what they were, he tamped out one of his cigarettes and said, “they’re my homemade cigarettes.” I believed him. He recently died of esophageal cancer.
Flash forward thirty years to today’s American high school student, connected to their mobile phones, the Internet and 24/7 BREAKING and sensational news…their entire lives lived in a country at war with others. A life in which the media bombs them with explicit details about Columbine, tsunamis, hurricanes, steroids, and mass shootings — yet hardly a whisper about managing finances or becoming solid leaders. TV programs glamorize the lives of the laid-back and ludicrous, while sales catalogs and billboards portray “peers” living the so-called American dream, all while millions of them wonder when their parents will find a job.
American teenagers’ lives are beyond stressful – and many of them, if they’re not selling drugs to put food in their bellies, are searching for ways to ease their anxiety.
According to a 2011 study from the National Institute of Drug Abuse, about 7.2 percent of 8th graders, 17.6 percent of 10th graders, and 22.6 percent of 12th graders had used marijuana in the month before the survey. Marijuana use declined from the late 1990s through 2007, with a decrease of more than 20 percent in all three grades combined from 2000 to 2007. Unfortunately, this trend appears to be reversing. Since 2006, annual, monthly, and daily marijuana use increased among 10th and 12th graders, according to the National Institute of Drug Abuse. In 2011, for example, 6.6 percent of 12th graders reported using marijuana daily, compared to 5.0 percent in 2006.
Here’s where it gets really complicated. State law in Colorado and Washington now allows adults 21 and over to legally possess up to one ounce of marijuana, but on the federal level, marijuana’s still illegal – leaving law enforcement in those states in a bit of a conundrum. Meanwhile, Evanston aldermen voted last year to decriminalize possession of small amounts of marijuana. Now, any individual found with 10 grams or less will not be arrested. Instead, violators are issued a notice to appear before Evanston’s Division of Administrative Hearings, fined between $50 and $500 and may be ordered to seek drug counseling.
On more than one occasion, I’ve heard kids say they believe drinking alcohol is more dangerous than smoking pot. When asked where they got that idea, the answer’s always consistent: “We learned it in school.” (According to this HuffPost column, the theory holds water). Add in California’s recent 20 percent decrease in juvenile crime — theorized by some to be the result of decriminalizing marijuana possession of one ounce or less from a misdemeanor to an “infraction” — and you’ve got an easy argument for using pot.
However, not everyone agrees that marijuana’s the “safer” vice, particularly among young people. Habitual marijuana smokers (4 or more times/week) who began smoking before the age of 18 demonstrated an 8 point drop in IQ between the ages of 13 and 38, according to a New Zealand study published last year. Those who smoked less often (but who began smoking before age 18) also dropped IQ points in the before the age of 38, and those who abstained from marijuana use actually gained an average of 1 IQ point.
The White House’s Office of National Drug Control Policy also opposes marijuana legalization, arguing that marijuana use is harmful and that legalization would actually increase its use and do little to curb drug violence. (Here’s the Office of National Drug Control Policy’s position on legalization.)
So here I am, writing to you, readers, asking what you think. It’s such a slippery slope. To the teens reading this, I’ll give you my honest opinion:
You should NEVER EVER EVER use marijuana. It alters your brain cells. Whether you like it or not, some people in our society will view you as a slacker for using and might therefore interfere with your opportunities. You don’t know how your brain will respond to it (or even what’s mixed in to what you’re buying). You may hate it or you may love it, but if you love it, trust me, you’ll want more, and you’re very likely to use it so much that you’ll stop getting high from it and then you’ll start using other, stronger things to get that same high. It’s a path you don’t want to walk…
Readers, what do you think?
People who don't do drugs have paid $2.4 trillion dollars so far for our "war", but the costs go far beyond monetary ones. We release violent criminals early to make room for drug users. Our homes and businesses are robbed by addicts, so that they can pay black market prices for their fixes. Parts of our cities are turned into shooting galleries, where law abiding citizens can't go, because of drug dealers defending their turf. Limited police resources are diverted from defending us from or the capture of real criminals. Our schools are filled with drug dealers instead of it being sold by licensed vendors as we do with legal products. We've turned selling plant matter into a multi billion dollar industry, guaranteeing that there will be those that sell it, and because it is illegal, those that do will only be the most violent among us. Prohibition makes us all less safe, and the only justification that prohibitionists have is that legalization would make those who decide to use drugs less safe. Yet they still make that decision, it isn't stopping use.
As a parent sure I'd be trying to figure out how to talk to my daughter about drugs or booze. But I'd also want to know why she tried them in the first place. Without understanding that, we'll never figure out what we're up against. Was that last joint a cry to fit in with other seniors? Or is this simply the first time I've caught her at it recently and this is a long pattern of trying to zone out -- as Christine said -- to cope with some tough part of life?A drink here and there is one thing. Someone who's under the table four nights a week is a whole other problem. Same thing on the joint. I wouldn't tell my daughter it's OK to smoke in our house or even on the back porch. Now if I miss her trying and I'm watching, that says one thing. BTW, to that person's comments about parenting, I think good parents are always on the lookout for odd behavior. They may not call attention to everything, but they're looking. If my daughter's smoking on the back porch and neighbors see it and say nothing though, or I'm clueless about what's happening, or even worse, I see the behavior and assume it's just kids and that for sure it will all work out, then we've got a couple of really big problems. And for the record, if my neighbor saw my daughter smoking a pipe on the back porch, I'd want them to tell me ... 4th amendment or not.
Young people only know what they are taught. They come into this world a blank page...write on it as you will. That is what they know...it becomes the 'path' they will follow through life. My Mom and Dad ran a tight ship. No, there was no physical abuse. But, my siblings and I knew where 'the line was drawn.' We loved and respected our parents...what they said was law. Example: no alcohol until age 21...marijuana was practically unheard of in my era. So, now kids need to be taught, no pot until 21. These 'kids' I am reading about in this thread...they seem to be without 'direction.' They are running wild. That was not allowed in my generation. You ask, "Bad kids? Bad parents? Bad schools?" My vote is not 'bad parents'...but, parents who are not providing these little guys with proper instructions on how to behave in society. They have to learn somewhere...proper instruction begans at home. Not only 'begins,'...but is 'demanded.' At least, that's the way I see it. And, yes, I know what opinions are like.
All excellent testimonials, Sir. Thank you for sharing, Hugh Yonn
1. Cannabis is illegal for children either way, prohibition or with legalization. 2. Access to Cannabis is difficult if it was legal like alcohol. 3. Access to cannabis is easier and abundant under prohibition. 4. Drug dealers don't care about the children. 5. It is more profitable to get children using more expensive drugs rather than cannabis. If you are a dealer up-selling will be what you do. 6. Cannabis is about as addictive as coffee. Tobacco is more addictive than heroin. 7. Education works better than propaganda, lies, and fear mongering, because kids are smart. 8. We tried prohibition for over 40 years. We know this road well. Give legalization a chance. 9. Reefer madness is pure propaganda. Lies do not garner support. 10. Prohibition costs to society far outweighs any benefits. Legalization is a sane model and allows for harm reduction. Look at tobacco for an example.
You don't think the $50.00 fine and a shame on you is enough
Maybe you've never been arrested, and don't understand that there are actually consequences. Something happened. They don't arrest you and then say "have a nice evening". They were booked, given a court date, and something happened. Are you saying you aren't aware of anything happening, or that nothing happened? How do you know the outcome? Do they have a record that is going to result in difficulties gaining employment? If that is the case, they are going to be paying less in taxes for the rest of their lives, correct? So the community will have less revenue. And you want to spend more money incarcerating them, as well? Because the drug use itself wasn't punishment enough, you want everyone to pay to punish them more? Is that your solution? Do you think that arresting people for this has reduced the number of users? Are there fewer users today than there were in 1937, when it was first made illegal? What do you want to see?
I believe the Evanston ordnance is a ticket for $50.00
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/14/marijuana-study-teens-pot-iq-drop-flawed_n_2473936.html
http://www.corbettreport.com/the-cia-and-the-drug-trade-eyeopener-preview/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9M4tdMsg3ts The second clip is a woman who watched, as a government insider, as public schooling had its heart and soul ripped out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezTIYd5UFRY